Gary I. Lande

Gary Lande passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 10, 2026, in Monroe Township, New Jersey, on his 87th birthday. He was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, leader, mentor, and coach. Born on November 10, 1939, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, he was the son of the late Manuel and Rose (Urofsky) Lande.

Gary was a graduate of Peekskill Military Academy where he played soccer, lacrosse and was on the wrestling team, reflecting the energy and discipline that would remain with him throughout his life.

He served in the United States Army, and following his military service he went on to earn a degree from Rutgers University and an MBA from Seton Hall University. Gary built a long and accomplished career in the pharmaceutical industry, working for Ortho Pharmaceutical, Johnson & Johnson, and Bristol Myers Squibb, among others. He was known as the most “squared-away” man you could ever meet, a quality that defined both his professional life and his personal character.

Always trying to support others, he also went on to have a successful career helping with job searches by coaching folks through the hiring process. This meant helping with a resume, cover letter, thank you letter or LinkedIn Profile to "show you the way forward", making a difference in countless lives.

Gary embraced an active life and took great pleasure in staying physically fit. He exercised regularly his whole life. In his younger years, he was an avid golfer, tennis player, bicyclist, and weightlifter. Even after retirement, he remained remarkably active. In later years, he continued with golf and bicycling, took up Ping-Pong and especially enjoyed playing with family and friends. Among the roles he cherished most was that of “Papi,” a name he carried with immense pride for his three grandchildren.

He is survived by his wife, Carolyn (Katz) Lande, with whom he shared 53 years of marriage. He is also survived by his sons, Michael Lande and his wife, Juli, and Jason Lande, all of Hillsborough, New Jersey. Gary’s love for family extended deeply to his grandchildren, Evelyn, Colin, and James, who brought him enormous pride and joy. He is also survived by his sister, Diadre Feldman, and her husband, Irwin, of Warrington, Pennsylvania. His family and friends will remember him with love, gratitude, and lasting admiration. Gary’s memory will live on in the lives of those who knew him, loved him, and were strengthened by his steady example.

Graveside services, officiated by Rabbi Eric Cohen, will take place on Thursday, November 12, 2026 beginning at 2:00 PM in the Flemington Jewish Community Cemetery, 61 Capner Street, Flemington, NJ 08822. Attendees are asked to arrive to the cemetery by 1:45 PM.

Memorial contributions in Gary's memory may be made to Amvets National Service Foundation by clicking the link below.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Holcombe-Fisher Funeral Home, 147 Main Street, Flemington, NJ 08822. For further information or to send an online condolence, please visit www.holcombefisher.com.